10 things you need to have a happy home after marriage

Having a happy home after marriage is not an impossible mission. Yes, it is possible to have that dream marriage of yours. CONTINUE READING…...CONTINUE READING>>>

This article examines ways you can achieve that.

1. Know Your Partner Well

Developing awareness of your partner’s tastes is among the keys to a happy married life. Your relationship can be shaped according to each other’s preferences.
When you are aware of your partner’s dislikes, you can refrain from doing what will cause distress to your partner. This will ensure your partner that you are considerate of him or her, a factor that is of utmost importance in the successful achievement of marital harmony.

2. Make Decisions Together

Making decisions together is also key to achieving happiness in marriage for three reasons. First, this practice enables the couple to collaborate to reach a decision. Second, both get equally involved in the decision-making. Third, if only one person makes a decision that ultimately turns out to be a bad one, it could lead to resentment. CONTINUE READING…

3. Balance Your Work and Life

You have to pay a lot of attention to your married life to ensure its success, which means that you should learn to balance your career and personal life. Sometimes, you could get very involved in your career and push married life to the background. You have to put in some effort to prevent this from happening.

You have to realize that there is no career in the world that holds as much importance as your married life. At the same time, it cannot be denied that sometimes you have to work at weekends and in the late evenings too. But make an honest attempt to minimize these situations.

Try not to bring your work home. In short, don’t allow your career to interfere with your married life. If you place too much emphasis on your job, your marriage will naturally suffer. You can talk about your day at work or vent about some problem you might be facing with employers or colleagues, but otherwise, keep the office where it is and don’t let it wreck your married life.

4. Don’t Focus on Disagreements

All marriages have their share of problems and discords. It is important not to prolong an argument. If ever you disagree, try to come to a friendly conclusion. If this is impossible, at least agree to disagree and proceed with your married life.

Every day is a new beginning. Forget the disagreements or arguments of the previous day when you wake up each day. In spite of your honest attempts, if you were unable to work out a solution to the problem, forget about it and go on with a new day harmoniously.

5. Agree on Financial Matters

Another key to a happy married life is to come to an agreement on financial issues. Financial matters create a lot of discord in marriage.

Both partners should develop awareness about financial situations and establish a budget that is easy to stick to. This will prevent any arguments related to financial issues in married life.

6. Agree on Critical Issues before Marriage.

Before getting married, know your partner well and discuss major issues.
For instance, it will be disastrous to discover after marriage that your partner does not want any children while you want to become a parent. Differences of opinion on such crucial matters can utterly destroy a marriage.

Make sure that you marry someone only after coming to an agreement about critical matters such as this. It will prevent problems from cropping up in your married life in the future.

7. Don’t Discuss Sensitive Issues

Keep away issues that might create discord in your marriage. While it is perfectly alright to have opposing points of view regarding politics or religion, it is not acceptable to allow your differences in opinion to cause a split in your union. You can enjoy a harmonious marriage if you respect your partner and his or her opinions.

8. Give Each Other a Lot of Space

Give each other a lot of space to ensure a happy married life. Spending a lot of time with each other is important, but it can also be suffocating if not done properly. So, it is as important to be apart as it is to be together and communicate matters pertaining to your interests.

The time that you spend apart from each other not only protects the marriage but also enables each partner to retain his or her individuality.

9. Respect Your Spouse

Respecting your partner is of paramount importance in marriage. Couples that show a lot of respect for each other and for themselves can be civil to each other even during a disagreement. Respect always promotes peace and happiness in marriage.

10. Share Household Chores

This is the greatest secret to a happy marriage. A couple that shares domestic chores and goes out of the way to make things easy for each other ensures happiness and peace in their marriage.

You will wreck your life if you don’t help your spouse with domestic chores. You could also go as far as making a list of things to be done every day and taking your share of the responsibility.

It is not fair to burden one person with all the work; so a written document of the responsibilities that each partner has to shoulder will go a long way in protecting domestic peace.

In Conclusion

Don’t confuse harmony in marriage with agreeing to everything that your spouse says. You don’t have to agree to each and every issue to enjoy a peaceful and happy marriage. However, diplomacy is important. CONTINUE READING…